Sami's farewell

I hope you’re okay, Sami.
I know we don’t talk anymore, I know there’s truly no words anybody could say to help you feel any better or fill this hole of emptiness - but I certainly hope you haven’t forgotten I’m here for you, no matter what.

It’ll get better, it’ll feel like some never ending hell for who knows how long; you just have to trust time, time will heal all, even the most broken people. Please don’t be so harsh on yourself angel, I promise it’s not your fault - I know you must’ve felt so helpless for not being able to do anything, but I can assure you, your dad would never want you to blame yourself.
He’s always gonna be there, he won’t only forever live on in your heart, but he’ll watch over you at all times, he’s gonna watch you be super successful in life and be proud of you every single second.

I hope you and your mom will be okay, I’m sure you’ll both get through it - but please stay strong, don’t lose yourself or even think about putting all this blame on yourself. ♡
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Hey Sami. I know I don’t know you well, but I’m sure your father was a great man. Time can be a ♥♥♥♥♥, ya know. If you need anyone to talk to, I’m here for you my man. Stay strong. May he rest in peace. <3

(meant “peace”, not “piece”.)
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Ripcord said:
14th February 2019.

I'm sitting in my living room with my mom, thinking about what the future holds for me. Today, the worst thing happened. My father died. 10 minutes is all it took. I couldn't do anything. I always wished to die before my parents, because I knew I couldn't bear the pain. Life is truly unfair. 13 years are not enough. I want my father back. I wish I could give my life and bring my father back. I loved him more than I loved anyone or anything in this world. He died in front of me. He suffered, he cried, but I couldn't do anything to save him. I have had enough of life. My father didn't die today; a part of me died today. I don't have anyone but my mom and you guys. I'd love to stay here and enjoy, but I just can't be the same person anymore.

This is it.
I love you all.
Goodbye <3
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This made my heart ache a little when I read this..
I am very very sorry for ur lose Sami, Death is so cruel.. it’s taken away lots of my loved ones away too. And I do agree, part of you does die in someway, but that’s when we need to move on..
When my aunt was dying of cancer on her death bed, she was vomiting, crying and was in so much pain. It hurt to see her like that, but her last words to me were “Be happy, and live life..”
The next day she died..
But I hope to live up to her last words, making the most of life, making special moments with the ones u love.. but also cherishing the good memories u had with the loved ones who died. I hope you find happiness out there, And if this grieving is to much for you Sami well u are always welcomed back here, You can always express ur self openly here, and if no one else listens, I will..
U have a very kind nature about u, iv seen it in some of the comments u reply to me, or to others, so use it. Although ur beloved Dad just died, use ur kindness to help other people. Helping people makes u happy but also (sorta distracts u from the grieving side of things). It helps you to think of others... And i Do hope ur mother will be okay, I send my condolences to her too.
Well I wish u goodluck, And I hope the best for you..
So long Sami.. You shall be missed here very very much
Sincerely
Flora lane
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I'm sorry Sami, I don't have much to say here than what's already been said, I can only imagine how it feels for you and your mom, losing someone that close to you must be awful. I'll pray for ya, and I'll miss you, bye :unsure:
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sami.. im srry for ur loss and ik exactly what ur feeling I watched my dad die in my arms in a hospital bed …. and even tho it hurts rn plz remember he will always live in ur heart and in u as well bc u r one part of him ...if it helps we can talk about it …. my prayers r with u sami ..love chrisalena
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Ripcord said:
14th February 2019.

I'm sitting in my living room with my mom, thinking about what the future holds for me. Today, the worst thing happened. My father died. 10 minutes is all it took. I couldn't do anything. I always wished to die before my parents, because I knew I couldn't bear the pain. Life is truly unfair. 13 years are not enough. I want my father back. I wish I could give my life and bring my father back. I loved him more than I loved anyone or anything in this world. He died in front of me. He suffered, he cried, but I couldn't do anything to save him. I have had enough of life. My father didn't die today; a part of me died today. I don't have anyone but my mom and you guys. I'd love to stay here and enjoy, but I just can't be the same person anymore.

This is it.
I love you all.
Goodbye <3
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I cried reading this, I can't imagine losing my mom or dad.
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you the best- know there are people here who care about you.
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Life is so easy to take for granted, and it can perish so easily. I've had close family member pass away before, and I know how bad it hurts. I've never had one of my parents pass, but one of my very close friends mom passed away about two months ago-I saw how much it hurt her, and everytime this happens to anyone, it makes me cry just thinking about it.

Nobody deserves for this to happen to them, and I'm so sorry this had to happen to you. No matter what happens, we're always here for you. Your father will always be with you forever, even if you can't see him..we all love you Sami, and I wish you the best in life.<3

To all the people who are being rude in this thread, if you have nothing kind to say, just leave.
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I won’t be saying,” sorry for your loss.” because it sounds like,” thank you for your service.” your father must’ve been extremely strong, he fought his battle. all the strong ones cry at some point, if you’re sad; that’s okay, it’s expected. we can’t say that your scar will heal, because in reality; we know it won’t. don’t use your scar as a barrier, something you can’t get over. use it as motivation, make your father proud, make him feel happy that he had you as a loving, caring son.

your father’s death changed you? that’s okay, it isn’t a bad thing. you do you, be who you want to be.

a flatline doesn’t mean that your loved one is gone, stay strong<3
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I almost cried while reading your post Sami.
I understand what you feel since I almost lost my dad a year ago. Remember to eat, to sleep and to drink : rest yourself. Don’t hold the tears, you will feel better.
I wish you the best to you, your mom and to all your family. You should remember he will always be somewhere in your heart, in your body and in your mind.
May he rest in peace.

We love you ♡
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I come back to check forums to see this... I'm so sorry Sami. I recently lost a family member too (my grandfather to be exact) so I have an idea of what you're going through. If you need to talk you can always DM me. :cry: :'(
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Ripcord said:
14th February 2019.

I'm sitting in my living room with my mom, thinking about what the future holds for me. Today, the worst thing happened. My father died. 10 minutes is all it took. I couldn't do anything. I always wished to die before my parents, because I knew I couldn't bear the pain. Life is truly unfair. 13 years are not enough. I want my father back. I wish I could give my life and bring my father back. I loved him more than I loved anyone or anything in this world. He died in front of me. He suffered, he cried, but I couldn't do anything to save him. I have had enough of life. My father didn't die today; a part of me died today. I don't have anyone but my mom and you guys. I'd love to stay here and enjoy, but I just can't be the same person anymore.

This is it.
I love you all.
Goodbye <3
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I know how it feels bro .

Goodluck and goodbye , sincerely .
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Oh my god, I'm so sorry I was late Sami, but please be strong, I know exactly how you feel, my grandma has died since I was 9 years old, at that time I always came to her house and she always gave me icecream and that makes me so happy. But one day my mom told me that my grandma has gone, It was the most unfair thing in my life, I was so sad and I cannot believe that thing will happen to me , but my mom always told me that she's in the better place and she will always stays in your heart. I believe people near you will always supporting you too, don't lose hope and blaming on yourself Sami. I once got hit by a motorcycle but I'm really grateful I could survive, because of people's help, I almost lost my life because of that accident, but I know without them I could have died. I know no one is deserving this, but as long as you live you need to be strong and love the ones that are still stay with you, you may can't see your father again but He will always remember you and stays in your heart.
And we're all the people here that will support you Sami. Good luck in your life Sami and make your father proud. Goodbye *KGM Bro*
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