Bullying- how to cope, from someone with experience.

Have you ever been bullied?

  • Yes

    Votes: 15 68.2%

  • No

    Votes: 7 31.8%
  • Total voters
    22
Rundas2001 said:
Yes everyone has been bullied
and you just gotta get through it
look at the big picture
that being bullied is nothing compared what you can do with the rest of your life
don't let it get to you
Be strong
I don't care if you say you can't be strong
Because you can be strong
don't let it get to you
Don't let it hurt you in the heart
Because if you do
It's going to tear you apart
you get through it
No matter how hard it is
Or if they hit you push you
You get back up
And you get through it
Because if you do
That means you have a chance to get passed it
And wake up and see that there's a whole life you have
No matter how bad your past was
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That was really nice Rundas :)
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ItzThatVixen said:
How often does it happen?
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I wouldn't say I'm bullied, I have been bullied but now I wouldn't say I'm bullied everyone just treats me like I'm a pile of poop and I'm talking about irl
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IceTheDutchAD said:
Such a beautiful thread...

I've been bullied quite a bit. Just going into high school made it 2x worse... even a user on here (Won't say who because they have people watching me.) has bullied me. And damn did that leave scars. Almost made me take the easy way out of that hell. But I'm still here (thankfully for some, others wish for it)

But this was a great thread. Some people normally think if they say nothing it'll be okay in the end, which is how I thought. But it really is better to talk about things. You get other opinions and options on what to do. I've learned even talking can save a life.

For someone depressed or feeling alone, this is perfect for them to read. This would probably bring the community together just to show people aren't alone in what they are going through. It's a very positive thread and I appreciate you spending your time to write it ^^
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I'm so glad you're still here. People love you. And whoever is bullying you on here is a coward, and don't deserve to be a part of this amazing community.

I felt that if I said nothing it would get better too (a bad habit of mine). And talking does save lives. That's 100% true.

Thank you, I'm so happy you feel that way. I didn't want bullying to be a subject that nobody talks about, because there are a lot of kids on here that can benefit from more experienced people and what they've been through. I appreciate you sharing personal thoughts, I'm sure it helps everyone too.
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Xxlucas1901xX said:
I wouldn't say I'm bullied, I have been bullied but now I wouldn't say I'm bullied everyone just treats me like I'm a pile of poop and I'm talking about irl
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I know what you mean. That sucks. Well, if you ever want to talk about it I'm here, and so is everyone else on this thread.
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BlueWillow said:
I haven't been "bullied", but I HAVE gotten into arguements with people irl and online. But usually, we make up the next day. I don't talk much in real life so bullying isn't really a problem. I have dealt with someone (in another game) who has been bullied and also had suicidal thoughts. I helped them but that game had shetty servers so I never saw them again. Hopefully they are ok. I have some comebacks in case I do get bullied:
Bully: "Ur ugly!" Me: Did you know that I am a mirror?
Bully: "kys blue!!!" Me: Does not compute. Please try again later.
Bully: "Stupid!" Me: *ignores*
Bully: "bloowillot is a stulid liar!!!1!" Me: Sorry, but the user "bloowillot" is either offline, or does not exist. Please, try again later.
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That's amazing that you've helped somebody suicidal. Also, it's always great to have comebacks and stand up for yourself, especially if they are funny. They can help diffuse a situation.

Thank you for sharing this :)
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XxDarkShuellexX said:
I haven't been bullied before... actually i've never seen anyone getting bullied in my school batch... but this is quite similar to confronting your fears... right now i've got stage fright, anxiety and was traumatized from an experience wherein I was chosen to say and act the poem i've made in front of a lot of people and I mean a lot of people (about 200 I think) including my so-called "friends" and classmates, there were some people taking videos too... I was still so much confident that time and thought I was doing great in every aspect but.... after the poem recital and during the award ceremony(where they give out certificates to winners) I didn't won anything not even 5th place.. this is the part where I felt all my friends and classmates where laughing(inside) at me and talked behind my back... it was so embarrassing, I was scared and I just wanted to run away... after that whenever there was a class presentation, individually or grouped I would always make mistakes, I would always stutter, I would always mispronounce words, I would always feel nervous, I would always ruin everything up and I would always remember that embarrassment I felt that time... it is really hard becuase no one would ever understand, I just kept going without a path, I would always think that I just have to finish it and that's all... my classmates right now thinks of me of someone with outstanding confidence especially in front of the class... but in actuality it is all acting... i've learned to act someone else entirely.... but slowly and surely i've been trying to regain the confidence I had and trying to know me as me... as a person.

Gosh this was so long .3. Sorry if this had just little to do with bullying, I just wanted to share my experience and for those who had similar experience as mine.. YOU CAN DO THIS... STAND UP FOR YOURSELVES, LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES :) SCHOOL ISN'T ABOUT SHOWING OFF AND HAVING THE BEST SCORES, SCHOOL IS ABOUT LEARNING YOUR CAPABILITIES AND WEAKNESSES TO USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGES AND PREPARING YOU FOR YOUR FUTURE....thank you :p
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Anxiety and stage fright are really hard things to cope with, my best friend struggles with that too. I hope writing that all down made you feel better in any way? Also, I hope you find who you are, and become more confident. After I was bullied, I learnt to stand up for myself, and now nobody messes with me. I guess in a way our bad experiences help us to become a better person, and I think that's what you're becoming.

It's ok, replies to this can be about fears, bullying, etc. as long as it helps others, and I'm 100% sure yours have. Thank you very much, and stay strong :)
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ItzThatVixen said:
I'm so glad you're still here. People love you. And whoever is bullying you on here is a coward, and don't deserve to be a part of this amazing community.

I felt that if I said nothing it would get better too (a bad habit of mine). And talking does save lives. That's 100% true.

Thank you, I'm so happy you feel that way. I didn't want bullying to be a subject that nobody talks about, because there are a lot of kids on here that can benefit from more experienced people and what they've been through. I appreciate you sharing personal thoughts, I'm sure it helps everyone too.
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I appreciate those kind words xD
It's nice to hear...
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I'm homeschooled..... Nobody bullies me XD ....I feel so bad though thinking of what you all have to go through....
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ItzThatVixen said:
Anxiety and stage fright are really hard things to cope with, my best friend struggles with that too. I hope writing that all down made you feel better in any way? Also, I hope you find who you are, and become more confident. After I was bullied, I learnt to stand up for myself, and now nobody messes with me. I guess in a way our bad experiences help us to become a better person, and I think that's what you're becoming.

It's ok, replies to this can be about fears, bullying, etc. as long as it helps others, and I'm 100% sure yours have. Thank you very much, and stay strong :)
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Thank you :)) and yes writing that made me feel better :3
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Jonas125 said:
I'm homeschooled..... Nobody bullies me XD ....I feel so bad though thinking of what you all have to go through....
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Ah, one of the pros of homeschooling xD I got homeschooled for a year and hated it lol. Yeah, it's pretty tough for us school kids, but we get through it :)
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