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Can anybody lend me your hand of giving me some tips that would help me with my social life .... not in games but in my real life ... i really dont know of how to make any friends ... my only friends are the people who are from my classroom ... i really scared of making friends because i am so shy ... i never start a conversation with any student that i don't know . Please give me some tips ;-;
 
ViperXlink said:
The title says it all
Can anybody lend me your hand of giving me some tips that would help me with my social life .... not in games but in my real life ... i really dont know of how to make any friends ... my only friends are the people who are from my classroom ... i really scared of making friends because i am so shy ... i never start a conversation with any student that i don't know . Please give me some tips ;-;
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One drama class and that's all you need to make friends. You won't be afraid after joining drama, "leave shame behind the door"
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I was shy af before and still am in some occasions so I feel you, Just be your self and stop over thinking bout how will they think of you, thinking to your "what would they think of me if I did this and that etc." don't think that way cause self confidence is key just don't be cocky
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ViperXlink said:
The title says it all
Can anybody lend me your hand of giving me some tips that would help me with my social life .... not in games but in my real life ... i really dont know of how to make any friends ... my only friends are the people who are from my classroom ... i really scared of making friends because i am so shy ... i never start a conversation with any student that i don't know . Please give me some tips ;-;
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Heh, I'm reaaaaally shy but, I want to change.

And, it seems to be working.

1) I set myself a daily goal. For example, "hold 3 conversations today with at least 3 different people who aren't friends." This helps me stay determined and as time goes on, I make my goal more difficult.

2) I try and listen to what others say to me and start off there. I really doubt that no one tries to talk to you. So, if you're stuck on what to say back, try and continue the topic. For example:

Person: Ughhhh, I hate maths.
Me: What, why?
Person: It's difficult and sooooo boring.
Me: Awww, poor you. Have you had any tests lately?
[Conversation continues...]

3) I try and engage others in class. I'm sure there's subjects where you have to team up with other people so try and say "Hi" to them at least. I'm sure you'll be fairly good at the subject so just try and encourage people to contribute ideas. As lessons go on, you might find that these people are actually okay.

4) If a friend is there, I can try too. I'm sure a boy like you has at least one friend so if you see them talking to people on their table which you happen to be on too, try getting involved in the conversation. Just throw in a few, short phrases because they could make all the difference. Oh, and if you find something funny or smile, don't be afraid to laugh! Even if someone judges or questions you, just remember that your friend is there to help! :D
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ViperXlink said:
The title says it all
Can anybody lend me your hand of giving me some tips that would help me with my social life .... not in games but in my real life ... i really dont know of how to make any friends ... my only friends are the people who are from my classroom ... i really scared of making friends because i am so shy ... i never start a conversation with any student that i don't know . Please give me some tips ;-;
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Don't worry... I'm really shy as well.
I don't like talking to people I don't know. xD
And I'm not really confident ._.
This might be a random question.. but do you enjoy playing any sports?
Because this is really weird. At my school, we have dance class.
And when I dance, my confidence boosts up. I don't know why. It's very strange. xD
So I guess exercising boosts your confidence? Sorry if this sucks ._. xD
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Ok imma make a joke social tip xD sorry but
Stalk and befriend everyone one by one learn what people like and dislike and use them in a convosation and become friends with em
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XxLiazaliaxX said:
Heh, I'm reaaaaally shy but, I want to change.

And, it seems to be working.

1) I set myself a daily goal. For example, "hold 3 conversations today with at least 3 different people who aren't friends." This helps me stay determined and as time goes on, I make my goal more difficult.

2) I try and listen to what others say to me and start off there. I really doubt that no one tries to talk to you. So, if you're stuck on what to say back, try and continue the topic. For example:

Person: Ughhhh, I hate maths.
Me: What, why?
Person: It's difficult and sooooo boring.
Me: Awww, poor you. Have you had any tests lately?
[Conversation continues...]

3) I try and engage others in class. I'm sure there's subjects where you have to team up with other people so try and say "Hi" to them at least. I'm sure you'll be fairly good at the subject so just try and encourage people to contribute ideas. As lessons go on, you might find that these people are actually okay.

4) If a friend is there, I can try too. I'm sure a boy like you has at least one friend so if you see them talking to people on their table which you happen to be on too, try getting involved in the conversation. Just throw in a few, short phrases because they could make all the difference. Oh, and if you find something funny or smile, don't be afraid to laugh! Even if someone judges or questions you, just remember that your friend is there to help! :D
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Woah thanks for these tips :3
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Pixel said:
Don't worry... I'm really shy as well.
I don't like talking to people I don't know. xD
And I'm not really confident ._.
This might be a random question.. but do you enjoy playing any sports?
Because this is really weird. At my school, we have dance class.
And when I dance, my confidence boosts up. I don't know why. It's very strange. xD
So I guess exercising boosts your confidence? Sorry if this sucks ._. xD
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I need to get through ballet class so i can boost up my confidence xD
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xXphoenixXx said:
Ok imma make a joke social tip xD sorry but
Stalk and befriend everyone one by one learn what people like and dislike and use them in a convosation and become friends with em
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Ehem sounds good :F lemme give it a try
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