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Hello everybody.

As you may or may not know, my name is Kendra, although it's obviously not my real name. I have actually quit the forums, although I have recently been a little more active. Anyway, I'm just going to skip right into the important part of this thread.

I know that most people on here are just people having fun on a Minecraft server forums. But to anyone who wants to help get rid of some of the negativity, keep on reading.

Say there was somebody who you really disliked, and you decided that you had just had enough, and you decided to leave a hate message on their profile.
You start typing the message, pouring every bit of hate you have for them into that message, letting them know how much you dislike them.

Pause for a moment.
Imagine that your message was showed to the ENTIRE world. Everybody could see it. What do you think their reaction would be? What kind of a person would they think that you are? What would they say? Just let that sink in for a moment.

And now, I'm not saying that I'm a particularly nice person. I am probably known for being one of the rudest people on these forums :'D (<--- supposed to be a laughing face), but I'm trying, and that's all that matters.

- Me, someone trying to spread the love xD

P.S, after re-reading this message, I just realised I could have put an "XD" for the laughing face xD I've obviously been spending too much time on the Episode forums xD
P.P.S, Please feel free to tag people.
 
KendraHawk said:
Hello everybody.

As you may or may not know, my name is Kendra, although it's obviously not my real name. I have actually quit the forums, although I have recently been a little more active. Anyway, I'm just going to skip right into the important part of this thread.

I know that most people on here are just people having fun on a Minecraft server forums. But to anyone who wants to help get rid of some of the negativity, keep on reading.

Say there was somebody who you really disliked, and you decided that you had just had enough, and you decided to leave a hate message on their profile.
You start typing the message, pouring every bit of hate you have for them into that message, letting them know how much you dislike them.

Pause for a moment.
Imagine that your message was showed to the ENTIRE world. Everybody could see it. What do you think their reaction would be? What kind of a person would they think that you are? What would they say? Just let that sink in for a moment.

And now, I'm not saying that I'm a particularly nice person. I am probably known for being one of the rudest people on these forums :'D (<--- supposed to be a laughing face), but I'm trying, and that's all that matters.

- Me, someone trying to spread the love xD

P.S, after re-reading this message, I just realised I could have put an "XD" for the laughing face xD I've obviously been spending too much time on the Episode forums xD
P.P.S, Please feel free to tag people.
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Damn a way to put it, I know a LOT of people that should read this message

Kendra wdyymmm you’re one of the nicest people of met and certainly aren’t rude, you’re a great freieennnddddddd
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PandeeDEATH said:
*Coughcough@BenjyPlayzYT@PsychicVibescoughcoughcough*
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Why tf you tag me you act like I don't defend you everytime someone attacks you for camping. You're rude, geez.
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sami got damaged by me
hes quitting forums due to me
he had enough
although he still respects me and i dont
i didnt know

im sorry
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EvieIsNotAmazing said:
sami got damaged by me
hes quitting forums due to me
he had enough
although he still respects me and i dont
i didnt know

im sorry
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Yeah let him quit, he is trying to manipulating you guys to feel bad for him but he is no better than the others.

One less wannabe for me
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jesus what happened
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KendraHawk said:
Hello everybody.

As you may or may not know, my name is Kendra, although it's obviously not my real name. I have actually quit the forums, although I have recently been a little more active. Anyway, I'm just going to skip right into the important part of this thread.

I know that most people on here are just people having fun on a Minecraft server forums. But to anyone who wants to help get rid of some of the negativity, keep on reading.

Say there was somebody who you really disliked, and you decided that you had just had enough, and you decided to leave a hate message on their profile.
You start typing the message, pouring every bit of hate you have for them into that message, letting them know how much you dislike them.

Pause for a moment.
Imagine that your message was showed to the ENTIRE world. Everybody could see it. What do you think their reaction would be? What kind of a person would they think that you are? What would they say? Just let that sink in for a moment.

And now, I'm not saying that I'm a particularly nice person. I am probably known for being one of the rudest people on these forums :'D (<--- supposed to be a laughing face), but I'm trying, and that's all that matters.

- Me, someone trying to spread the love xD

P.S, after re-reading this message, I just realised I could have put an "XD" for the laughing face xD I've obviously been spending too much time on the Episode forums xD
P.P.S, Please feel free to tag people.
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*thinks* but if it's to the whole world you could expose them for doing something

Jkjk I respect this .3. tbh we gotta stop some of the hate going around xD lessen it a little at least
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Verified Fangirl said:
*thinks* but if it's to the whole world you could expose them for doing something

Jkjk I respect this .3. tbh we gotta stop some of the hate going around xD lessen it a little at least
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True true xD

Yeah, I don't want to completely stop it, because some people (cough me cough) just like to express their opinion xD
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Something I would like to add, is that I can be very judgmental. I'll look at someone's posts and I'll think, "oh, that person is so annoying, selfish, etc." I then say something rude to them, instead of getting to know them first. Sometimes, those people become my best friends. Do you know why?
Because I apologise. If you said something rude, apologise to them. Words can really hurt people. I think everyone has been called names or insulted at some point in their lives, so know from that that it can really hurt, and damage someone's self esteem.

Sometimes leaving a little bit of a rude comment can help someone. It can make them think, "oh, maybe I am a little rude. I'll go apologise to those people I was rude to and thank the person who told me that."
If you decide to do that, and they are rude to you, it's most likely that you damaged their ego or something xD If they are rude to you, just say that you were only trying to help, and say sorry too. Then if they reply again, just leave, and don't reply. Be the better person, don't keep arguing.
While it can still benefit people, sometimes it's better to just stay quiet, unless you have something nice to say, or if it benefits the other person (basically constructive critism).
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EvieIsNotAmazing said:
sami got damaged by me
hes quitting forums due to me
he had enough
although he still respects me and i dont
i didnt know

im sorry
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It's okay. I'm not quitting any time soon.

~Sam said:
Yeah let him quit, he is trying to manipulating you guys to feel bad for him but he is no better than the others.

One less wannabe for me
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I'm not a wannabe. I'm not manipulating anyone. And I'm not quitting now, nor am I gonna quit any time soon. I've been giving you respect and I've been trying to avoid your stuff, but you don't deserve the respect. If you think that I'm bad, I'm bad. I might have been stupid before, but I'm better now. Even though you don't deserve respect, I'll still respect you. That's the difference between you and me. I don't want to be mean with you. Please forgive me.


@KendraHawk
Kendra, I've never talked to you, neither have I ever seen a post of yours which was rude, but all I know is that you are a nice person and everyone loves you for that. Be positive.

This place will change when we all change ourselves. I might sound like a hypocrite, but I'm gonna work on what I just said. Just like everyone who has failed and decided to be better, I'm trying to be better.

Kendra, you're amazing. You're not someone who would hate anyone without a reason.

This thread might be old, but I just wanted to get this out.
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