I thought I have a good family until...

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Soo I actually do have a good family, I have a good relationship with my grandpa, my mom and my dad. I don't have a really good relationship between my sisters cause they are annoying and being soo noisy in my parent's room. And my room is next to their room.

We used to hangout alot together, but I spend a bit less than my sisters cause I was doing my own, at least I do spend time with them. I thought everything is gonna be fine, until this happened.

I came back from school with my sister as usual, eating dinner, then my mom asked me to help her counting coins so I went to her room. Then what I heard my mom and my dad just having a conversation on each other.

They speak in cantonese and I can understand a little bit. I'll try to explain what they said, soo my dad was talking and I was listening.

Dad : Why did you changed all the sudden, in 1 or 2 weeks you just talk to me even less. I've seen your messages just saying " Oh, okay, I already ate, " and you didn't ask me back anything, just nothing. I know you were playing and I'm fine with it. I don't know which boys you are talking to, I can't see it. You take pics and recording with them but me, you didn't even do it to me. What's wrong with you, huh?

And the rest I really want to forget everything when they are talking. I belive is my mom's game addiction, she has been texting more with her online friends and her sisters and cousins, but she text to dad even less.

I need help to solve the problem.
 
I only see my dad once a week : D
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family problems...
Just talk to ur mom and ur dad at the same time and i say to ur mother to forget those sick games that she was doing it and get back her to normal
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i dont live with my mom cuz shes in jail and my dad is stuck in mexico
i live with my grandma
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i could be speaking out of turn, but maybe it's best if you sit down with both your parents and tell them to talk to one another. i'm sure it's a small hobby for your mum, but maybe think of something they can do together alone or as a family.
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• Zoey • said:
i could be speaking out of turn, but maybe it's best if you sit down with both your parents and tell them to talk to one another. i'm sure it's a small hobby for your mum, but maybe think of something they can do together alone or as a family.
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thats what i said
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Sometimes things change u cant force them to revert back to who they were. If this can break a family that easy then maybe it was meant to happen. Only thing you can do is to adapt whatever it is dont hesitate to try
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Pandeee said:
Sometimes things change u cant force them to revert back to who they were. If this can break a family that easy then maybe it was meant to happen. Only thing you can do is to adapt whatever it is dont hesitate to try
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Well, she was like this since like February or March
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HannahZard said:
Well, she was like this since like February or March
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Well it lasted a good while then so probably wont be that harmful
u said she was addicted to something online?
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Pandeee said:
Well it lasted a good while then so probably wont be that harmful
u said she was addicted to something online?
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That kinda ruining the relationship with my dad
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