I saw the report but i don't know the reason.

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I was banned by _pineappledeath_ for "bullying". I heard that other 3 staff members agreed with her that "it's true" is bannable, I want someone to give me proofs that it is bannable. So when some russian guys bullied me for straight a month and i reported them to maddie she banned them for 2 days and then she seemingly got tired and told me to /ignore them. When someone called me a "h*e", one staff member said they aren't allowed to mute them because it means "how" in Dutch. When on TSW some guy called me a "b**ch" and other names in pvt i didn't report him because I know staff will say "just /ignore" them. So why didn't that dude /ignore me if i was 'bullying' + this is the first time i see him on server, does staff team even know definition of 'bullying'?
More than that, NINJAMARIO provoked me and Mefe231, he didn't provide enough evidence of his words, he screenshotted only our words and cut them. I want someone to explain me how that deserves a ban and a reason 'bullying'.
My user: arukaaa.
 
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**anyone that is not me or Aruka will be banned from this thread, your messages will be deleted and if necessary (depending on whatever’s said & duh obviously another staff can comment) you could be given warning points as well.**

The bullying rule has ALWAYS been very confusing for everyone, because we all had different opinions on what exactly it was. The staff team talked about it months and months ago and all gave our point of view on things and decided to take bullying or insults much more seriously because people were getting away with too much stuff.

So when some russian guys bullied me for straight a month and i reported them to maddie she banned them for 2 days and then she seemingly got tired and told me to /ignore them.
I’ve absolutely never gotten tired of people, bullying is something I will NEVER push aside and it’s something I *have* never pushed aside, if anything I most likely told you to add them to your ignore list afterwards is because I was so confused and scared on making a mistake since the bullying rules were all mixed up, this is obviously outdated too cause the rule was changed to 7 days months ago. Clearly it’s something I don’t tolerate whatsoever, nor do any other staff. You can look up countless bullying reports which have resulted in a ban for what you might consider ‘they weren’t being rude’ - these AREN’T being compared to the things you said, they’re simply an example on how much more seriously it’s being taken. So I don’t wanna hear anything about “did I tell him to kill himself? Did I say blahblah??” Etc.



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you actually were given an explanation on why we couldn’t mute them, you just decided to delete ssunsett’s message and keep your own / KS’s so you’d look a right or something I guess. (Your message was deleted for false info a few days afterwards)

this rule was also a bit confusing, the actual definition of hoe is ho. While, hoe can mean so many other things sometimes it’s hard to try and picture what they COULD be meaning - we were told by one of the admins not to mute (I believe) for saying hoe unless they meant it in an offensive way - even whenever I was a player I reported somebody for saying hoe and it got denied cause they meant something else by it, I’m just meaning this as an example that it’s always been like this. you can’t keep using outdated things against us to try and justify your own actions. We all have different views on certain things - 3 of us could agree and 5 could disagree, 5 of us could agree and the other 3 could disagree. You can’t expect every staff member to handle things the same exact way another one does, we’re individual people and don’t always go to each other or constantly think ‘hmmm.. what would this staff of done’

I absolutely will not talk with you or even attempt to discuss this if you don’t do it in a calm manner, I can understand your frustration but I can only hope you understand mine. Aruka, you can’t sit here and tell me the things you said weren’t rude. You straight up agreed with the fact nobody even cares about him and to me that’s basically telling somebody they’re worthless - what else would it mean? You said many others things along with that comment.

you can’t blame this on the reporter for provoking you two, that’s something your mom would say whenever your younger sibling is trying to push your buttons. You simply ignore and go along with your day, you didn’t have to even reply to him. Mario was definitely in the wrong as well because he’s known for doing things like this and I agree that it was unnecessary on his end as well, that’s why he received warning points as well. It’s not unfair, it’s not playing favorites cause in all honestly I was a little annoyed he had to drag along the situation - the point is YOU were the only one who said something we could do something about, if we would’ve banned the other two (ninja and mefe) then you really would’ve been furious and the only reason you wouldn’t of cared about ninja being banned is because he’s nothing special to you. Everything you said was the proof, you saw it with your own eyes, you said all of it.

it’s not our fault that you or mefe didn’t get screenshots of whatever ninja said, although if you do have screenshots then you could definitely send them to us and we’ll look over it the same way we looked over your situation. I obviously wasn’t gonna go into this without getting more opinions, there were 3 other staff members that agreed and I can guarantee even more would as well - they just stopped replying after the decision was made. Also hi sorry my reply is long, then my dog decided to run away so we had to go find her (TεT)
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1. The links of threads you've attached are *considered* as bullying and I agree that they deserved their ban.
2. I'm not making excuses, but I really don't remember deleting Ssunsett's comment on my profile.
EDIT: maybe I did for some reason, but after you reminded me I thought that It was unnecessary for me to delete her comment
3. On ss i sent to certain staff member was enough evidence in my opinion, because the person that called me a "h*e" definitely doesn't speak dutch, and I don't remember but I think on screenshot you were able to see her death message, after she called me that, which means she got knocked off by me in TSW, which resulted her calling me that.
4. I never expected myself to look good just to gain other ppl's attention, you always can restore messages on my profile, idm
5. You are the only one being 'not calm' in private conversations, + you accuse my friends (if you have more questions feel free to DM me on Discord (arukaa#8639) or create a conversation on forums, but I don't use forums much, so Discord would be more convenient for me.
6. You really think this is fun for me? 'Trigger staff', go against the rules? I'm creating this ban appeal to resolve this 'problem' just like with our ban appeal about Discord!
7. Again, create a conversation with me and I will express to you my point of view. As you can see I'm being totally calm without attacking anyone, so I would like the same from you, Maddie.
8. About screenshots, I don't have to take screenshots, as you can see on screenshots from report of NINJAMARIO he has an Apple device. He can easily show you the full screenshot by tapping on red button in bottom right corner aka "Revert".
You can clearly see he started proviking me and Mefe231 for an argument. He also cut some screenshot where he said something provoking on purpose and Mefe replied with "we won't fall for this".
P.S. provoking means a lot in such situations and sometimes can be an important part of a conflict.
9. He could also ignore me & Mefe! But he decided to start an argument. /ignore always exists and that applies to me as well, but I decided to stand up for my friend while he's being accused for hacking. No, I'm not an attention-seeking kid, that cares about someone saying that I'm using hacks, I just wanted to explain why he lost a fight with him.
10. I never said you are playing favorites, what does it have to do with my ban appeal? Many people PVTed me with offensive phrases, words and etc. but no one ever did anything about it, and you can't excuse it with confusing bullying rules. I understand that replying "it's true" to "I feel like no one cares about me.." might be a little bit offensive but it's can't be considered as bullying at all. I'm not saying I know more than staff members do but this is really absurd, and I think you understand it yourself, Maddie.
11. You already said that to Spencer "If Aruka wasn't your friend, you wouldn't be creating a conversation with me right now". "Because he isn't special for you", It doesn't matter if someone is my friend or not. If I think someone got banned unfairly or muted, I always used to ask staff members, whether we know each other or not. I have a good example from my friend*: xxAmanda00xx got falsely banned by Guinea and Gracie wasn't friends with her, but she stood up for her and proved Guinea wrong. If you will say something similar to "Oh really? Never saw you doing that", It's because I barely check "Reports" and "Ban Appeal" sections, I only do when someone directly texts me about it. So, please, stop assuming things, Maddie.
12. I'm not trying to be rude, and It's totally normal for you to be late, I appreciate the fact that you found time to reply to my Ban Appeal because I know you are very busy IRL, but you don't have to include the reason :^

2nd EDIT: I'd like to ask you something in a private conversation about this, and listen to your point of view on this situations and 'hear' your arguments but with more details than you gave me in your reply to this Ban Appeal.
WELL, that's it, I really look forward for you to DM me on Discord, or wherever you would like to privately talk with me because I have more questions for you
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I also apologize for such a long reply :confused:
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I did receive the full screenshots from Mario, it was just in a conversation because I wasn’t gonna unlock the report to be spammed. Also I never told Spencer he wouldn’t of created a conversation with me if he wasn’t friends with you - I simply told him he wouldn’t care or be so aggressive about it if he didn’t know you, most people tend to follow whatever staff say or do if they aren’t friends with whatever player is banned - you should see some of the messages I’ve received on alllll platforms.. even insta all about this situation, there’s such a huge difference between the people that know you compared to the people that don’t. It’s just a general though, not something I was meaning towards everyone. It doesn’t mean they’re correct or incorrect, it’s just the drastic difference between the two and the amount of aggression shown. Some of my message was once again, just a general thought because the people disagreeing seem to think we’re favoring. I also don’t believe I’ve ever been rude or aggressive in any conversation, you just have to understand that I’m not exactly gonna be all giggly & happy after all you guys have done is cause trouble, it’s very hard for me to talk with you along with others in your group because nobody ever listens to anybody expect themselves.

I’d rather talk about it in a conversation or discord (although I’m a bit inactive there) cause like.. that’s a loooot of reasons ˎ₍•ʚ•₎ˏ
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Okay, I'm sorry, I said something slitghly wrong but a little bit of meaning still remained.
P.S. I never asked those people to DM you, I don't even know who DMed you except for Spencer-
I agree with you, that there is a difference with people knowing each other and strangers, but it's not the main point. People don't just go past it, they try to 'help' staff members, when they feel they are wrong. The only difference, in my opinion, Is that friends are always furious or something like this, and strangers (sometimes) can easily give up If their opinion gets denied and case is closed
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I did receive the full screenshots from Mario, it was just in a conversation because I wasn’t gonna unlock the report to be spammed. Also I never told Spencer he wouldn’t of created a conversation with me if he wasn’t friends with you - I simply told him he wouldn’t care or be so aggressive about it if he didn’t know you, most people tend to follow whatever staff say or do if they aren’t friends with whatever player is banned - you should see some of the messages I’ve received on alllll platforms.. even insta all about this situation, there’s such a huge difference between the people that know you compared to the people that don’t. It’s just a general though, not something I was meaning towards everyone. It doesn’t mean they’re correct or incorrect, it’s just the drastic difference between the two and the amount of aggression shown.

I’d rather talk about it in a conversation or discord (although I’m a bit inactive there) cause like.. that’s a loooot of reasons ˎ₍•ʚ•₎ˏ
Yeah, I know that. If you don't mind, could it be Discord?
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