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ok so there’s this friend that I have (not mentioning who it is) so basically her and I hang out and stuff and we kinda became very good friends but recently we haven’t talked and stuff.
We kinda got bored of BrokenLens so we joined this new server (not saying which server) And we talked on that server for few days and stuff but then
she became friends with these other ppl too and she talked with them more than me and stuff and now I feel like I’m being left out... I don’t rlly want to talk about it with her because idk I just think it’s awkward and I’m shy to talk about how I feel about being kinda ignored.
Last night I stood in one place for like about 3 hours in the server just looking at the chat and stuff and she was there too talking to ppl ._. But we didn’t talk with each other. Idk what made me stand there doing nothing except listening to her talk to friends and stuff and seeing her kill ppl in chat. I guess friends r supposed to always be there or smt so I stayed there until she went to sleep and log off.
Idk if she’s doing this because I introduced her to my other friend and maybe she got jealous? Idfk.
I basically need advice on what to do... like should I just loose complete contact with her or should I do smt like move on?
 
Well, if she isn’t talking to you, then you can either explain to her about how you feel left out, or you can find some new friends to chat with
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tbh best advice is to try talking to her about it if she doesnt talk to you anymore after that it means your just irrelavent to her now
if that happens drop her cause she would drop you with out a second glance >.>
but try to make efforts to talk to her
if it doesnt work and she ignores ya then rip plan b up dere ^
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definitely confront to her about it. a key stone in friendships or any relationship really, is communication.

there’s no harm in trying anyway ( ˘ω˘ )
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You have two choices:
  • Confront her and talk about the situation
  • Find someone else
I suggest the first option. If it isn't working out, that last one is a last resort.
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Don't worry girl, this happened to me PLENTY I moved on and just don't normally talk to anyone. It's not very efficient so I don't recommend you doing this but it works for me.
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“wanna play survival games xD”

“ok”

“owo”

while ur standing being left out


honestly just tell her hello or hi and u wont be embarrassed since its not real life
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She seems happy with her friends so like, idk. I might play the server with a different acc and different identity ._. I’m too scared to confront her too so like .-. WHY IS THIS SO HADRDJEJWJ
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_oXxFl0xXo_ said:
She seems happy with her friends so like, idk. I might play the server with a different acc and different identity ._. I’m too scared to confront her too so like .-. WHY IS THIS SO HADRDJEJWJ
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Maybe stay in your account and say hello, be cordial, go play your games, do your thing, see if she approaches you. Meanwhile try to make some more friends? She may not even realise she is making u feel ignored.
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allymac123 said:
Maybe stay in your account and say hello, be cordial, go play your games, do your thing, see if she approaches you. Meanwhile try to make some more friends? She may not even realise she is making u feel ignored.
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I did for the last few days. I see her face me for like a sec and then just like, turns and walks like shes ignoring me and do whatever she needed to do next. Eh I don’t think she’s interested in being my friend anymore since she has like 7 more other ppl she can hang around with... also, it does look like she makes friends by asking them for smt like armor, a god sword, potions, etc. She even asked me to buy her a rank today. She only talks to me when she needs smt from me, like once she needed to use my xp to upgrade her sword for her.
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_oXxFl0xXo_ said:
I did for the last few days. I see her face me for like a sec and then just like, turns and walks like shes ignoring me and do whatever she needed to do next. Eh I don’t think she’s interested in being my friend anymore since she has like 7 more other ppl she can hang around with... also, it does look like she makes friends by asking them for smt like armor, a god sword, potions, etc. She even asked me to buy her a rank today. She only talks to me when she needs smt from me, like once she needed to use my xp to upgrade her sword for her.
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If you haven’t already, try explaining yourself to her - if she’s truly your friend she’ll understand.
That doesn’t sound like a friend whatsoever, if she’s asked for all that and has done nothing but ignore you in return she’s obviously using you.

Stand up for yourself, angel. ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
You don’t always need people like that in your life, whenever they’re finally gone you’ll most likely find yourself happier.
_oXxFl0xXo_ said:
ok so there’s this friend that I have (not mentioning who it is) so basically her and I hang out and stuff and we kinda became very good friends but recently we haven’t talked and stuff.
We kinda got bored of BrokenLens so we joined this new server (not saying which server) And we talked on that server for few days and stuff but then
she became friends with these other ppl too and she talked with them more than me and stuff and now I feel like I’m being left out... I don’t rlly want to talk about it with her because idk I just think it’s awkward and I’m shy to talk about how I feel about being kinda ignored.
Last night I stood in one place for like about 3 hours in the server just looking at the chat and stuff and she was there too talking to ppl ._. But we didn’t talk with each other. Idk what made me stand there doing nothing except listening to her talk to friends and stuff and seeing her kill ppl in chat. I guess friends r supposed to always be there or smt so I stayed there until she went to sleep and log off.
Idk if she’s doing this because I introduced her to my other friend and maybe she got jealous? Idfk.
I basically need advice on what to do... like should I just loose complete contact with her or should I do smt like move on?
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I’ve lost many friends, there were so many points in my life I was friends with these people because I didn’t have anyone else.
I learnt, it was easier going solo than hurting yourself while trying to find the good in just about everyone.

It’s not something you should just ‘ride out’ and see what happens, you shouldn’t be shy about your feelings towards all this! It’s okay, if she doesn’t understand then some people just aren’t worth it. :p
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Ask her if she wants to play a with you.
If she just flat out doesnt respond just confront her about it.
i dont understand who wouldnt want to be friends with you though.
i want to be friends with you lmao
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