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Ok so I know the replies on this thread will be full of so much hate but I am pretty much used to it at this point. Last year I had met someone named perc30 and he had issues with many people on brlns. Since I was new I didn’t want to have drama with anyone so I was friends with everyone including Perc and the people he was arguing with. He had issues with people such as the brbs, promise and her friends, and many many more. I never got in the middle of it and was super nice to everyone. Then as things got worse me and Perc had gotten into an argument because I told him just to chill on bothering them. He had quit brlns and so I tried to help one of the people he hated on the most (awoo). Now before I continue just reminder, I am not trying to expose anyone. I am simply here to share my feeling. As I approached him, he was very rude, all I had said was “hey I’m sorry about Perc but he’s gone now and if there is anything I can do to help you, please let me know. And after that I was told to F off and to leave. He had told the brbs and many more to hate me alll because I was friends with someone they didn’t like. I had nothing to do with It. Now I wanted to make this clear. Yes I am taking responsibility for my actions because sometimes I attend to over react or to go a bit too far but you guys need to understand, when you go on the server every day getting death threats, hate, and many more by people you don’t even know who just like to jump on the band wagon, it gets hard to just sit there and take it all In. As soon as I snap and go off because I’m so frustrated the others end up reporting me to staff and only show the stuff they say leaving the ugly remarks and name calling they did out. I am not asking for anyone to be on my side because there shouldn’t even be sides. I want this to be a message for many others who this will soon happen to one day. If there’s an issue that gets out of hand, just know your strong. Staff, I truly hope you all get a chance to read this and atleast understand that I made mistakes but it’s for a reason. I am one person against many others that jump on the band wagon and hate on me for no reason, Consolation and her friends, awoo and the brbs, and now many more that I don’t even know. Yes you may have seen me be a bit harsh but I regret not taking screen shots of what came before and now that has gotten me to a place where I look like a terrible person. The amount of hate I get for literally DOING nothing is too much to handle. I feel as if over the last few months broken lens has been a bit toxic due to try hard players constantly thinking they are higher than everyone else. Not the staffs fault at all. I hope someone will understand me some day. I am not going to be returning to broken lens anytime soon so feel free to perm ban me or whatever is best. 8 years ago I dealt with server drama for 7 years and when I finally left I came to broken lens last year as an escape. Yes I have threatened to leave before but this time I mean it. That is not what it is now. I give up on reporting because I’m either called a snitch or I’m attacked. Feel free to dm me on Instagram if needed @Yo_fav_Cj or text me on disc MystreetDante#5922 . This is not about a game anymore it’s about human decency and when I feel like many have lost it it’s my time to go. Farewell.
 
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I don’t know the entire story, but I do know that nobody deserves this much hate. I’m sorry you had to go through that, and I do hope you feel better soon. You seem like such a nice and bright person. May you achieve your hopes and dreams, bye Dante <3
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Dante, I’ll really miss you. You’ve been nothing but kind to me and I can’t thank you enough. You don’t deserve all of this that’s been going on with you, I’ve seen quite a lot of it through pictures and such and it sucks. I feel so so so bad for you but I respect your decision to leave. Feel free to DM me on Discord if you ever want to rant or anything. Goodbye and hope all gets well! :) ♡
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Man, this sucks

I remember I got depression bc of threats and stuff, but man, people can truly be horrible, sometimes even to the point where they aren't even humans anymore, but just monsters. Once one person gets going, they've got so many more behind them just to add more insult to anything.

Even though cliché stuff like "Just ignore them" is often given as advice for verbal bullying, this is practically useless when literally ten to a hundred people are breathing down your neck, insulting every move you make. They're trying to make you go insane, fight back, even die. When you do lash out, they take that opportunity to use that to destroy you even more, and even you want to destroy them back with what they've done, chances are they have more power than you because they have more people behind their backs and you likely only have yourself.

People only feel remorse for the person they bullied when they eventually drive them into suicide, but by then, it's too late. I understand your decision to lash back out and to leave BrokenLens, but man, those people need to be taught a lesson.

I know all of this only because I've also been a victim a few years back, but I'm over it by now. Farewell, but not goodbye.
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Man, this sucks

I remember I got depression bc of threats and stuff, but man, people can truly be horrible, sometimes even to the point where they aren't even humans anymore, but just monsters. Once one person gets going, they've got so many more behind them just to add more insult to anything.

Even though cliché stuff like "Just ignore them" is often given as advice for verbal bullying, this is practically useless when literally ten to a hundred people are breathing down your neck, insulting every move you make. They're trying to make you go insane, fight back, even die. When you do lash out, they take that opportunity to use that to destroy you even more, and even you want to destroy them back with what they've done, chances are they have more power than you because they have more people behind their backs and you likely only have yourself.

People only feel remorse for the person they bullied when they eventually drive them into suicide, but by then, it's too late. I understand your decision to lash back out and to leave BrokenLens, but man, those people need to be taught a lesson.

I know all of this only because I've also been a victim a few years back, but I'm over it by now. Farewell, but not goodbye.
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this is exactly what happened to me. Yes I did say some messed up things, end of the day. I’m not the one who kept poking at someone to get them to say something just to report them and get them banned. It’s hard. Thank you for this because it truly expresses how I felt.
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It's going to take a while for me to sink in everything and to realize that you're leaving. I really hate that you're going through this- you didn't deserve any of it. I understood that you were just wanting to be nice to everyone but the way they treated you at the end just hurts. You've been through way worse than I did but I want to let you know that you did well and were so brave for handling everything- I wouldn't have made it far actually.

I want to thank you for being one of my greatest friends since I take such a long time to trust people. I'm going to miss the way you made me smile whenever I felt down.

Many people have broken your wings so I'll fix them for you- and I give you my best wishes on this new chapter and path that you'll take. We will miss you Dante.

If you need someone to talk to, feel free to do so on discord! I'll always be there- you're not alone!
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MystreetDante said:
Ok so I know the replies on this thread will be full of so much hate but I am pretty much used to it at this point. Last year I had met someone named perc30 and he had issues with many people on brlns. Since I was new I didn’t want to have drama with anyone so I was friends with everyone including Perc and the people he was arguing with. He had issues with people such as the brbs, promise and her friends, and many many more. I never got in the middle of it and was super nice to everyone. Then as things got worse me and Perc had gotten into an argument because I told him just to chill on bothering them. He had quit brlns and so I tried to help one of the people he hated on the most (awoo). Now before I continue just reminder, I am not trying to expose anyone. I am simply here to share my feeling. As I approached him, he was very rude, all I had said was “hey I’m sorry about Perc but he’s gone now and if there is anything I can do to help you, please let me know. And after that I was told to F off and to leave. He had told the brbs and many more to hate me alll because I was friends with someone they didn’t like. I had nothing to do with It. Now I wanted to make this clear. Yes I am taking responsibility for my actions because sometimes I attend to over react or to go a bit too far but you guys need to understand, when you go on the server every day getting death threats, hate, and many more by people you don’t even know who just like to jump on the band wagon, it gets hard to just sit there and take it all In. As soon as I snap and go off because I’m so frustrated the others end up reporting me to staff and only show the stuff they say leaving the ugly remarks and name calling they did out. I am not asking for anyone to be on my side because there shouldn’t even be sides. I want this to be a message for many others who this will soon happen to one day. If there’s an issue that gets out of hand, just know your strong. Staff, I truly hope you all get a chance to read this and atleast understand that I made mistakes but it’s for a reason. I am one person against many others that jump on the band wagon and hate on me for no reason, Consolation and her friends, awoo and the brbs, and now many more that I don’t even know. Yes you may have seen me be a bit harsh but I regret not taking screen shots of what came before and now that has gotten me to a place where I look like a terrible person. The amount of hate I get for literally DOING nothing is too much to handle. I feel as if over the last few months broken lens has been a bit toxic due to try hard players constantly thinking they are higher than everyone else. Not the staffs fault at all. I hope someone will understand me some day. I am not going to be returning to broken lens anytime soon so feel free to perm ban me or whatever is best. 8 years ago I dealt with server drama for 7 years and when I finally left I came to broken lens last year as an escape. Yes I have threatened to leave before but this time I mean it. That is not what it is now. I give up on reporting because I’m either called a snitch or I’m attacked. Feel free to dm me on Instagram if needed @Yo_fav_Cj or text me on disc MystreetDante#5922 . This is not about a game anymore it’s about human decency and when I feel like many have lost it it’s my time to go. Farewell.
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I truly for a fact never met you, but my sister @utopiia has. I was always told such wonderful things about you and I hoped to stumble upon you once on Brokenlens and take off from there. Unfortunately, I may not have a chance now but I understand in every way what you are going through, because I have been in that same position; twice.

I understand getting death threats everyday.
I understand getting hated everyday.
I understand getting thrown under the bus everyday.
I understand having been looked as the “bad guy” everyday.
I understand you being alone. And I in some way am glad you shared this.

Although it may seem impossible for me to go through such experiences because I’m always bubbly, chaotic, energetic, and childish, I have. I have gone through such things. And I can go through such detail of these unfortunate events.

I wanna end this on a good term. I want you to know that you are not alone. You aren’t the only one going through this, and know that there are people that just love everything about you. If you feel like talking things out to someone, don’t be afraid to do so. You can start a convo here or talk to me on Instagram (@candywastaken) or Discord (@joongiewastaken #9160). Goodbye Dante. We will miss all the happiness and joy you have brought upon this community.



*sorry if this got too deep, I didn’t mean it to go that deep -3-*
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It’s a massive bummer I never got to be friends with you, you where so joyful, kind and just a positive person. You have such a nice personality and I’m sorry people like you have to go through this. I hope you can get better and get these negative things out of your mindset because they aren’t true <3 What I’m staying is thanks for coming on and just being a sweetheart. I’ll miss you
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i have spoken to dante / CJ recently. he is a good friend of mine from school. Many people such as Awoo, Terrifying, and Consolation, etc. Have bothered him first and i have seen it with my own eyes. @Capitaine64 has said before awoo has one more warning so awoo backed off sending his “friends” to attack dante for him. i have seen it happen. I had logged into dante’s account to see his messages and what pushed him over the edge and just this has shown me what he gets so worked up over. use this as a good example on why you only see the parts where dante goes off on them. it’s because they start crap with him before and completely leave out what they do. @terrifying well done for your brave words of wisdom! “do us all a favor and leave” because you and awoo and many others have damaged dante to the point where he feels trapped. staff look at him as if he’s crazy and plays the victim all the time when he has clearly stated many times he takes responsibility for his actions. THESE PEOPLE POKE AT HIM CONSTANTLY until he cracks under frustration. just look at these messages ! Dante i love you and feel free to snap me anytime. we will find another server to go to. clearly this one is too toxic.
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