Am I a bad person?

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Ok soo I have been having some problems irl and they are really affecting me and I fell like I am taking out on my friends. 1 of them when I tried to join them they left the game and when I pvt them. They ignored me. I feel like I am taking my feelings out on them and affecting them. What do I do? Does it make me a band person? And should I remove that friend?
 
No you’re not a bad person your a good person in my opinion.


You should if you want also who is he/she that make you feel bad?
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I dont think so. if you were taking your emotions out on your friends then it probably means you had nowhere else to do so. It's not the greatest idea in the world, so i recommend finding a better way to take out your feelings. If they're not willing to talk it out with you even after you apologised and explained then dont waste your time on them.
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Ok soo I have been having some problems irl and they are really affecting me and I fell like I am taking out on my friends. 1 of them when I tried to join them they left the game and when I pvt them. They ignored me. I feel like I am taking my feelings out on them and affecting them. What do I do? Does it make me a band person? And should I remove that friend?
BAND person
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Also, WTH DID I TYPE BAND PERSON?! lol rip me :D
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I don’t think you’re mean at all...


If they're not willing to talk it out with you even after you apologised and explained then dont waste your time on them.
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You are an amazing person. If you have any problems feel free to talk to me :)
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Ok soo I have been having some problems irl and they are really affecting me and I fell like I am taking out on my friends. 1 of them when I tried to join them they left the game and when I pvt them. They ignored me. I feel like I am taking my feelings out on them and affecting them. What do I do? Does it make me a band person? And should I remove that friend?

Let me assure you that personally, I believe no one is bad. People only do bad things because they think they have no other choice and are driven by lies and insecurities and worries that corrupt their thinking. But that’s just part of being human. Maybe that applies to you now but it could also apply to your friend. I’m not defending them but maybe they’re afraid of confrontation.

If I were you, I’d calm myself down (i.e tell myself everything is going to be alright) and if you’re able to - arrange a meeting with your friends to ask if it seems like you’ve been taking out your feelings on them. Like Erin said, just explain and apologise and if they won’t at least listen, they’re not worth it.
Don’t accuse them of leaving or ignoring you though or they will automatically become defensive.

If you still aren’t managing to speak with them, I’d give it some time. Maybe they just need their space but if they’re still ignoring you after, like, a week and aren’t making an attempt to talk to you, it’s best to move on. You shouldn’t unfriend them until you know for sure that they have no intention of making up.

This is just my opinion though and I hope even a little bit was useful. Good luck~
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Ok soo I have been having some problems irl and they are really affecting me and I fell like I am taking out on my friends. 1 of them when I tried to join them they left the game and when I pvt them. They ignored me. I feel like I am taking my feelings out on them and affecting them. What do I do? Does it make me a band person? And should I remove that friend?
u gotta know why they hate u if they keep ignoring
remove them
u can revenge aswell in different ways but yeh i dont think thats agood idea
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Let me assure you that personally, I believe no one is bad. People only do bad things because they think they have no other choice and are driven by lies and insecurities and worries that corrupt their thinking. But that’s just part of being human. Maybe that applies to you now but it could also apply to your friend. I’m not defending them but maybe they’re afraid of confrontation.

If I were you, I’d calm myself down (i.e tell myself everything is going to be alright) and if you’re able to - arrange a meeting with your friends to ask if it seems like you’ve been taking out your feelings on them. Like Erin said, just explain and apologise and if they won’t at least listen, they’re not worth it.
Don’t accuse them of leaving or ignoring you though or they will automatically become defensive.

If you still aren’t managing to speak with them, I’d give it some time. Maybe they just need their space but if they’re still ignoring you after, like, a week and aren’t making an attempt to talk to you, it’s best to move on. You shouldn’t unfriend them until you know for sure that they have no intention of making up.

This is just my opinion though and I hope even a little bit was useful. Good luck~
Aye. Thanks a lot. I will but it seems that my friend had seen this post and actually we had a convo yesterday and we agreed that we were both mean, and got over it. Thanks for advice though. I will defiantly use it :P
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Ok soo I have been having some problems irl and they are really affecting me and I fell like I am taking out on my friends. 1 of them when I tried to join them they left the game and when I pvt them. They ignored me. I feel like I am taking my feelings out on them and affecting them. What do I do? Does it make me a band person? And should I remove that friend?
Dont feel like ur the only one I have exactly the same thing I have lost loads of friend for taking it on people so don’t feel alone
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