A serious question about Real Life

ShadowPlayZ_MC said:
So, i'm having a problem a serious problem at school.Everyone is calling me ugly and plus i have no friends bcuz of my uglyness.I really want to do a fight, but my parents kept saying never strike first, they aregonna feel god's punishment.I don't want to do that, it will happen soon or later or maybe NOW.

I am asking you, what do you do.
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I agree with everyone else.
Tell an adult, keep telling them every time it happens.
Don't fight them unless they hit you first, in that case beat the oranges out of them.
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ßlue said:
I agree with everyone else.
Tell an adult, keep telling them every time it happens.
Don't fight them unless they hit you first, in that case beat the oranges out of them.
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Lol
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ßlue said:
Don't fight them unless they hit you first, in that case beat the oranges out of them.
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Or just be a god at dodging, then they get in trouble and not you because you didn't get physical.
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Anmo said:
Or just be a god at dodging, then they get in trouble and not you because you didn't get physical.
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Most schools you'll get suspended anyway because of dumb no tolerance policies
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Sheldorium said:
Fighting won't do anything unless you happen to be an absolute fighting machine. And even then everything you’re going to do will probably just get you into trouble, espically because whoever is bullying you will become really angry and very likely just get a couple of friends to fire back at you.
Telling a teacher or an adult will at best solve the problem for a few days.
After that it will start all over again.
Trust me I tried it and it does absolutely nothing.
There is exactly one thing that you can do.
And its to not let the things that people say about you get to you, especially if its about your appearance. If you constantly treat things like that as a personal attack and get anygry because of it, people aren't gonna stop. Instead they are going to notice that you're getting angry and continue to provoke you because...well it’s kind of sad but seeing people angry from an outside view is just hilarious. I mean why do you think rage compilations on youtube exist?
What you should be trying to do instead is to treat it with humor, even if it seems difficult. And I don't mean just laughing it off with a little grin, you can actually play into it, even make jokes about yourself.
That way you can show people that you absolutely don’t care about any of your flaws or even make any insults regarding you look a little ridiculous in the first place no matter if the intention behind it was serious or not.
All in all thats probably gonna make you seem a lot more charismatic and confident than trying to fight them.
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Good answer! I agree with this answer 100%
It is so hard to swallow but he is right- if you laugh it off and/or make fun of yourself what fun is it for them to pick on you anymore?
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shadow, the motive of them making fun of u is because they see u as an "easy target" and because they want to make sure u react to their comments. this is because the truth is that they're truly alone inside. as for you, you do what they least expect u would. you make their joke your OWN joke, like if someone called me an illiterate, i would say "me no spek englis wot u ment", taking the fun away from the joke itself

another alternative is to completely ignore them (this isn't efficient because the comments will eventually hurt u and they would still win)

and if things start slippin out of hand, you always have an adult or us with u

remember: DONT. FIGHT. THEM. if u get physical, they would succeed and you would lose your dignity. beat them at their own game, that would be YOUR victory

and remember one thing;"your time will come, your time will come"
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ShadowPlayZ_MC said:
So, i'm having a problem a serious problem at school.Everyone is calling me ugly and plus i have no friends bcuz of my uglyness.I really want to do a fight, but my parents kept saying never strike first, they aregonna feel god's punishment.I don't want to do that, it will happen soon or later or maybe NOW.

I am asking you, what do you do.
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wait for puberty
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It doesn’t matter on how you look it only matter is your inside :p
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ComplexSanta said:
It doesn’t matter on how you look it only matter is your inside :p
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Yeah, Santa.I know that very well.Back then ppl were loving each other so much, no matter who is beautiful.But, nowdays...
It just doesn't work
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ShadowPlayZ_MC said:
Yeah, Santa.I know that very well.Back then ppl were loving each other so much, no matter who is beautiful.But, nowdays...
It just doesn't work
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I believe that someday you will find your true friend
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_Juventus said:
shadow, the motive of them making fun of u is because they see u as an "easy target" and because they want to make sure u react to their comments. this is because the truth is that they're truly alone inside. as for you, you do what they least expect u would. you make their joke your OWN joke, like if someone called me an illiterate, i would say "me no spek englis wot u ment", taking the fun away from the joke itself

another alternative is to completely ignore them (this isn't efficient because the comments will eventually hurt u and they would still win)

and if things start slippin out of hand, you always have an adult or us with u

remember: DONT. FIGHT. THEM. if u get physical, they would succeed and you would lose your dignity. beat them at their own game, that would be YOUR victory

and remember one thing;"your time will come, your time will come"
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Okay but, what if they starting punching me?What should i do?Ignore that?
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I've been through sth like that . Ppl used to hate me for no reason and i had no friends . But now i have great friends . All u gotta do is just show them ur inside, let them know who u rly r . They judged u from the outside and it's never a good thing to judge a book by its cover. Fighting would be the last thing u wanna do ,unless they started it first . If u need to share ur life with anyone ,ur family would be the best option . If they dont start fighting u ,just ignore them .There r ppl out there who likes and loves u the way u r and they're obviously not them but hey ,everyone can change . Everybody needs a friend . If u ever feel lonely u can talk to ur family or ppl that u trust . U can talk to me if u need to. I'm sure that whatever ppl think of u in the outside , u're beautiful in the inside , just like everyone in this world ! :) Trust me ,u will find a great friend someday !
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ShadowPlayZ_MC said:
Okay but, what if they starting punching me?What should i do?Ignore that?
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you do what a soldier would; use ways to only DEFEND yourself such as blocking a punch

you could also take help from nearby people and take actions like contacting THEIR parents etc
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_Juventus said:
you do what a soldier would; use ways to only DEFEND yourself such as blocking a punch

you could also take help from nearby people and take actions like contacting THEIR parents etc
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Unless you're trained, blocking punches is really hard. Offence is the best defense.
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