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So, i'm having a problem a serious problem at school.Everyone is calling me ugly and plus i have no friends bcuz of my uglyness.I really want to do a fight, but my parents kept saying never strike first, they aregonna feel god's punishment.I don't want to do that, it will happen soon or later or maybe NOW.

I am asking you, what do you do.
 
Don't let people get to you, violence is never the answer try to be civil and act like their words don't get to you. If they see a reaction of them calling u ugly they'll keep calling you it and it'll get worse. So act like they don't get to you and they'll stop, if they don't tell an adult or someone you trust. I'm here if you need to talk :)
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Don't let people get to you, violence is never the answer try to be civil and act like their words don't get to you. If they see a reaction of them calling u ugly they'll keep calling you it and it'll get worse. So act like they don't get to you and they'll stop, if they don't tell an adult or someone you trust. I'm here if you need to talk :)

Thanks!
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Fighting won't do anything unless you happen to be an absolute fighting machine. And even then everything you’re going to do will probably just get you into trouble, espically because whoever is bullying you will become really angry and very likely just get a couple of friends to fire back at you.
Telling a teacher or an adult will at best solve the problem for a few days.
After that it will start all over again.
Trust me I tried it and it does absolutely nothing.
There is exactly one thing that you can do.
And its to not let the things that people say about you get to you, especially if its about your appearance. If you constantly treat things like that as a personal attack and get anygry because of it, people aren't gonna stop. Instead they are going to notice that you're getting angry and continue to provoke you because...well it’s kind of sad but seeing people angry from an outside view is just hilarious. I mean why do you think rage compilations on youtube exist?
What you should be trying to do instead is to treat it with humor, even if it seems difficult. And I don't mean just laughing it off with a little grin, you can actually play into it, even make jokes about yourself.
That way you can show people that you absolutely don’t care about any of your flaws or even make any insults regarding you look a little ridiculous in the first place no matter if the intention behind it was serious or not.
All in all thats probably gonna make you seem a lot more charismatic and confident than trying to fight them.
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Fighting won't do anything unless you happen to be an absolute fighting machine. And even then everything you’re going to do will probably just get you into trouble, espically because whoever is bullying you will become really angry and very likely just get a couple of friends to fire back at you.
Telling a teacher or an adult will at best solve the problem for a few days.
After that it will start all over again.
Trust me I tried it and it does absolutely nothing.
There is exactly one thing that you can do.
And its to not let the things that people say about you get to you, especially if its about your appearance. If you constantly treat things like that as a personal attack and get anygry because of it, people aren't gonna stop. Instead they are going to notice that you're getting angry and continue to provoke you because...well it’s kind of sad but seeing people angry from an outside view is just hilarious. I mean why do you think rage compilations on youtube exist?
What you should be trying to do instead is to treat it with humor, even if it seems difficult. And I don't mean just laughing it off with a little grin, you can actually play into it, even make jokes about yourself.
That way you can show people that you absolutely don’t care about any of your flaws or even make any insults regarding you look a little ridiculous in the first place no matter if the intention behind it was serious or not.
All in all thats probably gonna make you seem a lot more charismatic and confident than trying to fight them.
Wow, so i have to ignore them when they r hurting me?
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im sorry, i just realised what i said. dont give those people what they want, which is a reaction from you. I know it is incredibly hard but eventually they'll (probably) leave you alone.
Ty Erin
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Shadow, try not to let the words of them idiots effect you it's only gonna effect you even more if you listen to them. Also fighting doesnt solve anything. Just ignore them and get through life and hopefully things work out <3
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Ignore them or show them how good you are or even ask them to play mc with you or tell the teacher
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try to find a bestie, there has to be one in your school somewhere.

they are a real life support, better than a 1,000,000 fake friends!
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We're different to someone else eye, they might treat us bad, or sometimes good - but you aren't sure to any person these days. Some pretends, some are real.


Try to make friends to someone else that you think will accept you as a friend, don't rush things fast. Try making some sort of conversation about them, and if you feel like that you're getting attached from one another try asking if he/she would like to be your friend.

Also, as everyone mentioned fighting won't lead you to something good - try ignoring the person who tries to bring you down and try to be yourself, those people are there to estimate how long or let's say if you have a self confidence.

You aren't ugly, we are all beautiful and handsome - we might be different but on someone's eye. But, for me - we are all equal.

Just try to ignore them and don't start an argument or either a fight that won't lead you to something good. Ignoring is the best way! :)
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So, i'm having a problem a serious problem at school.Everyone is calling me ugly and plus i have no friends bcuz of my uglyness.I really want to do a fight, but my parents kept saying never strike first, they aregonna feel god's punishment.I don't want to do that, it will happen soon or later or maybe NOW.

I am asking you, what do you do.
Uhhhhhhhhhhhh call them ugly back
Edit: Nah jk xD
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I tend to deal with it. Being a lone wolf is a thing, and if I have no one to talk to, I'll change from outrageously weird and loud to quiet and serious.

Plus, if you let it get to you, it will take over. People would say "stay strong" and it makes sense.
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try to find a bestie, there has to be one in your school somewhere.

they are a real life support, better than a 1,000,000 fake friends!
I cant find a friend they all get a way from me
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I cant find a friend they all get a way from me
If you couldn't find any, I guess you need to stay strong and try to avoid what will turn out bad.

Try ignoring them, I'm sure they will look dumb - trying to tease you, but here you are ignoring them.
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I got no friends either. Just say “Cool but you’re uglier”. Don’t get physical it just gets you in more trouble
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