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CinderPuppyEyes said:
Only the one you loved could have been your assassin. It takes an inside job to attack one so resilient to emotional injury. That is your heartbreak, to know he was the tool of your greatest pain; your lover.

Since your love turned to poison, your mind seems to cycle through emotions faster than a kid flipping radio channels. You've gone from level to rocky - fighting a mixture of competing emotions, each of them vying for dominance. It's only after the reboot of sleep would you feel calm. Sleep is the only way to cope. Yet this coping is a thin veil over trauma and even the smallest of set backs can change your emotional landscape.


Love is hard to understand. Some people fall into it and some rise in it. But people are always yearning and craving it. Heartbreak of course, is something people never want to experience and sometimes that's what scares them out of love. There is a certain type of pain when someone passes away and you mourn their loss and there is always plenty of advice on the types of things you'd be feeling in the moment. But heartbreak is something different; you mourn the loss of someone who is still alive. You can't go pay your respects by a gravestone or lay down flowers. You simply have to live with the loss as horrible as it sounds.
Your shared your vulnerabilities more readily than trading cards, interlocking your hearts as much as your fingers. He took root in you in a way you would never have dreamed of letting another soul do, feeling that he was your shelter and you were his.

Even so, you can't deny he made you feel like love was something special. Something just for you. Love is meeting someone that makes you more you. Love is completely opening yourself up to someone, showing off all your weird, all your mess, all your late night thoughts. And them loving you despite all that. They might not agree with you on everything, but they still think you are the most amazing thing to ever happen to this strange planet. You make the world less terrible for them, and they make it less horrible for you. They make your weird not seem so weird. They make your mess seem less messy. So, what is love. Love is complex. Love is work. But love is also beautiful. Incredible. Good. Love is something that everyone strives for, not matter how much it may hurt to finally get there. Yes it does hurt, but the way it makes you feel outweighs the hurt.

With this in mind, maybe we should just let people make mistakes. The best things can come out of them. You loved Len so much and you refused to be shaken until the very end. It's the same for everyone else. It's not just love that keeps relationships strong. It's communication and more importantly, it's the hope. The hope they'll be together for a long time, the hope the love won't fade. You've felt it; I know you have. If you need to talk more about this I'm here for you, Retro.
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I just need a hug....
and to be loved...
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~RetroDragon~ said:
I just need a hug....
and to be loved...
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Being loved can come in many different forms. You can be loved as a sister, as a cousin, as a girlfriend or just as a friend. All of them show devotion to you. While you may not believe me or agree, you have a lot of people here who would be there for you; of course, you have to let them in first
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CinderPuppyEyes said:
Being loved can come in many different forms. You can be loved as a sister, as a cousin, as a girlfriend or just as a friend. All of them show devotion to you. While you may not believe me or agree, you have a lot of people here who would be there for you; of course, you have to let them in first
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I wanna be loved like a gf by len again... smh.
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_Emoty_ said:
we get that you’re hurt, but this is absolutely unacceptable. just because you’re hurt doesn’t mean every other person in existence should be in pain, too. you’ll move on. you might not think you will in the moment or even weeks from now, but you will, trust me. quit it.
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omfg i completely agree with u 10/10
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_Emoty_ said:
we get that you’re hurt, but this is absolutely unacceptable. just because you’re hurt doesn’t mean every other person in existence should be in pain, too. you’ll move on. you might not think you will in the moment or even weeks from now, but you will, trust me. quit it.
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^ (basically sums up what I’m about to say)

Don’t go making other ppl miserable just because you’re broken-hearted. I’m sure that everyone has or will experience this pain (I have), but you shouldn’t go around critiquing other ppl’s relationships: It’s pretty dog tbh
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frfr this thread was very unnecessary and i agree with what everyone’s already said. if you’re sad, you shouldn’t feel the need to bring others down with you as well. in all honesty it seems like you want attention (or someone to talk to), and you could’ve handled this another way. it’s dumb that you’re letting one person affect your actions and thoughts, learn to let go & move on, especially if the other person has.
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ok ima be straight up u made this thread complaining about ur failing relationship ok that sucks but srsly u made a thread complaining and attacking others like no just bcs ur relationships wern't successful doesnt mean others arent. Ur saying we act like 11 yr olds look whos talking the one who made a thread about their relationship and telling others theirs wont last long. im not saying a brokenheart is easy to get over but dont take ur unhappiness out on others let others be
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i think everyone here is pissed at the fact u attack other ppl's ships smh move on girl ur not acting like the bigger person rn
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~RetroDragon~ said:
yay!.

another person who thinks im a mistake,
lemme go get my nife
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Retro, there is more for you out there than love. While it is a beautiful disastrous thing that humanity craves, it's not the only wonder the world has to offer.

What about your dreams of space? What about your knowledge of animals? What about your passions and interests? What about your ambitions? Don't live for anyone, decide to live for yourself.

If love can fade, so can pain.
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Pufflin said:
we all deal with loss in different ways, sometimes someone’s really hurting, not just seeking attention.
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that i understand but still come on puff i think even u agree there was no reason for her to call everyone out like that
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