what the actual, f***
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Actually sometimes people do deserve forgiveness, no matter what they’ve done, what they’ve said.
There’s always gonna be that little bit of sorrow, sometimes you just fail to see it.
Although, you can’t say anything without thinking of the consequences, especially when it’s hurtful words.
You don’t have to trust them nor forgive them, but you can’t always hold their mistakes against them.
*pat pat*
Pain isn’t permanent, regret is.
There’s always gonna be that little bit of sorrow, sometimes you just fail to see it.
Although, you can’t say anything without thinking of the consequences, especially when it’s hurtful words.
You don’t have to trust them nor forgive them, but you can’t always hold their mistakes against them.
*pat pat*
Pain isn’t permanent, regret is.
CrystalCruz
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that’s why this is in “off topic” lmao
Pandeee
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you are right but i sure as hell can be a huge b**** and hold it for the longest time i possibly can, i didnt even hear much of a sorry and it all feels so fake, even if they want forgiveness, wall never even tried to say sorry let alone acknowlege here what he did was some bullshit only through strel he did, and i still dont even know WHY he did it why everyone else agreed to do it hell i dont even know if they are cackling behind my back on how stupid i am or how they will start up another friggin war after this dies the hell down
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Psh, so?
If you find yourself a lovely person than that’s truly all that should matter.
Again, people are always gonna find a reason to talk. ♡
Strel
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they arent.
Anything to do with the war was removed. They switched topics and will never speak of it again.
Pandeee
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your probably right then again it really irks me now that i dont see any hint of remorse at all not even a reason, just a picture of this all being some fun game to him, a game to make me cry, a game to make me suffer, a game to turn me parinoid about who really are my friends, and what hurts a little too pine is that you see this as another little piece of drama you have to quell. im not ok everyone knows now that im not ok anymore and i intend to be the “detective” oishie said i was and find out why. so i ask you dont lock this thread until i can get a clear straight answer from wall himself.
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Actually the reason I’ve joined in is because I can’t stand seeing people hurt, it doesn’t even have to be my friend.
If I wanted this to not cause drama, I could’ve just locked it, hm?
You don’t have to be afraid, take risk, because sometimes people are worth it.
If I wanted this to not cause drama, I could’ve just locked it, hm?
The real friends will stay, they won’t stand aside and listen to such hurtful words being said about their friend.
You don’t have to be afraid, take risk, because sometimes people are worth it.
CrystalCruz
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speaking from personal experience, holding it in as long as you can does not help my dear. it only causes more pain. right now, you’re being fueled with most likely disappointment & betrayal, both of which can block some clear thinking. take some deep breaths and relax. don’t overwhelm yourself.
there’s that chance that they may be sincerely sorry. do you need to forgive them right now? nope. can you hear them out? yes. hearing both sides of the story before making decisions is something that should be done in situations such as this.
but please love, do not let negativity cloud up your thoughts
Pandeee
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ok, still holding a grudge for now tho >;( cus we all know im a 5 year old child but i still am waiting for the other side, still asking why he did it why everyone else pitched in lots of whys but no comment from the other side just a feeble sorry and “lets drop this haha”
CrystalCruz
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that’s fine. but don’t hold that grudge for too long, alright? people can change ;p and nono, youre not a child. youre expressing how you feel & there is nothing wrong with that.
have you tried creating a convo with him? maybe he’s too embarrassed to say anything in here.
Pandeee
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yeah but age seems like a huge decider of your maturity so whateves i havent tried making a convo since i do really want him to tell everyone why since so many people know about it now ya know now it doesnt have to be wall could be @Angry❤ to tell us too since they also know why the war was started. stated in the bl discord if i want closure to all of this mess i want to end it with an answer.
simpp
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Convo? :-: