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sorry if I offended u

u didn't, I actually didn't get say what I wanted to say tho… Im sorry but I still partially disagree. What I think about black pfp's is attention, but if you are sad (regarding to anyone), you should be more focused on getting happier, instead of expressing your sadness. Try talking to a staff or friend in a convo or something.

The explain this better, heres an example, if your sad at school, do you hide in a corner, or talk to someone abt it so u feel better,the logical reason is to talk to someone, like u said, no hate, I just don't think its the way to solve things...

also to go on with what you said abt being alone, I suggest maybe taking a break from forums (this goes for anyone), if u don't take a break AND keep ur pfp how it is, nobody will worry abt u. U can even say a little white lie for an excuse for leaving... like, going on vacation and not allowed to bring electronics or something like that...

lmao I hope u didn't freak out or anything when you saw 3 paragraph long comments XD

you shouldnt have to lie that you're happy. Being unhappy isnt bad. People act like its horrible, but its not. Being sad is okay. It's temporary, but okay. You shouldn't have to lie, that's worse.
Sometimes you dont need to focuse on being happy. Happy isnt a necessity, honestly its frustrating when people act like it is. Sometimes you just need to be sad. Thats the way life is.

Yeah, but if your sad you don't need to show people you are, you can be sad by yourself, ya know, personally

whats wrong with people knowing you're sad?

it makes them nervous, and then it becomes worse and worse and questions and sometimes, you just want to be alone. It becomes a build up of people wondering how you are and it causes drama

but people arent doing any wrong about asking how you are, that means they care enough about your well being.

Yes, but its easier if you just talk to them directly, instead of having to show your upset. I suggest having a convo with someone if your sad, addy.

if u wanna be alone, close off ur profile for however long u want. If people ask what was wrong, you can tell them the truth or just say youre better now.

or you can just not show your sad at all and have a little alone time, away from forums, without saying anything, its that simple.

again, whats so wrong with showing your sad??? Its a human emotion.

Yes, you can do what you're suggesting. You could also do what i say.

Both are options, nothing wrong with either of them.