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He broke up with someone (I say this because of his old status)

oh no ;-;
angel i'm so so sorry, if you want to talk, i'm here for you

It's okay, Cinder, I don't want to talk about my break up with S- oh, you're talking to Cookie. Sorry bro I'm here if u need to talk

sami, my offer extends to you too if you need it xd

I didn't know if I want to say it or not but since Sami already said that so I guess I will talk then...

if you aren't ready to talk or you just don't feel up to it, don't force yourself, love

i'm more than happy to wait until you feel ready. if being ready means waiting a couple days or weeks then that's okay. as long as you want to talk, i'm here for you but i will never pressure you into talking if you don't want to

She kept breaking up with me and want me back, and I kept giving our relationship chances, it is like recycling. Everytime she wanted me to go, but everytime she wanted me back, now I guess I won't trust her anymore since i realize she is just playing with my feelings. But I miss her so much tbh idek why....

missing someone after the breakup is natural regardless of how great or terrible the relationship was. you were emotionally close to her in a way you don't really find too often. it's okay to miss her. you put a lot of time and effort into the relationship and she treated it like nothing by continuously playing with your feelings.

it's not your fault that she left, angel. she wasn't good for you. but that doesn't mean you can't still miss her

it won't be easy to stop missing her. but it will get easier over time. things like feelings are never simple. but over time, we find ways to deal with them. you will find a way to deal with how you feel and you will get through this

Mhm, time explains everything, it is really hard to deal with it and let it go, all I need is just time...

Thank you so much cinder, thank you for always being my backs, I still don't how to thank you enough because you help me everytime when I need help!!!
Thank you once again angel ;")